nowigetyou

Now I Get You

Now I Get You bridges the gap between male-female communication through lecturing, coaching, or both. My clients vary from teachers and coaches to couples and relationship therapists who get stuck with couples.

Communication between men and women often goes right. I am here for when it doesn’t go right: where there are tensions, questions, and compromises. I teach you the theory and the application behind male and female psychology from original perspectives, helping you grow both as a person and as a communicator.

Really, I offer a manual. Not the manual, but an important addition to the ones already in use.

What is Now I Get You not?

Now I Get You is not therapy. I am not a therapist.

Now I Get You is not a spiritual bypass. It is not pop-psychology in a new outfit, and it does not reaffirm gender ideologies.

Now I Get You seeks to comfort you—not through comfort, a role, or an attitude, but through insight. I have seen this insight unravel what gender roles or emotion alone have not.

When you finally understand the hidden logic behind your partner’s reaction—or your own—something settles. And that’s where the fun begins: you learn to apply the logic through your own experiences. You begin to develop your own understanding of the logic and develop it further.

Now I Get You isn’t one-size-fits-all.

It’s deep, structured work rooted in holistic awareness. It doesn’t ask you to suppress any triggers or fears. It offers a framework of understanding of male and female psychology through a neutral paradigm.

It is not flat information. It’s understanding in construction—by you, me, and everybody that works with it.
It is just as alive as the space it holds.